Difficult

How can I be considered an adult in my family if I have no ground to stand on? I have no license, no job, no car, and no money. I applied to colleges and I applied for jobs, so far I was rewarded 28,000 dollars in one grant for a private college (that's not Shaw Unviersity). It's difficult for me to be mature in my family's eyes if I have nothing that credits me to be an adult.